tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63536433916553439242024-03-21T22:28:59.666-05:00The Two's Don't Have to be Terrible~making the most of your child's earliest and most influential years~Nancihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01692648544383327693noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353643391655343924.post-22458323587386201962011-09-08T21:56:00.000-05:002011-09-08T21:56:04.671-05:00Food, Water, and Attachment<div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Yep, it’s </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">that</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> important. </span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">There are few, if any, aspects of infant/toddler development more important than the child’s attachment relationship to his parent or other primary caregiver. Secure attachment provides a </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">healthy</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> and </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">secure</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> base for the child to learn how to appropriately </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">respect, relate to, and interact with others. </span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">“But,” you wonder, “what exactly </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">is </span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">attachment?” </span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Attachment theory</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> is credited to child psychiatrist, John Bowlby, and psychologist, Mary Ainsworth. To learn more about Bowlby and Ainsworth, </span></span><a href="http://www.psychology.sunysb.edu/attachment/online/inge_origins.pdf"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">click here</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. Here’s a very brief breakdown of what they discovered:</span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Attachment is the </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">emotional bond</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> that forms between an infant and her primary caregiver (typically the mother). An attachment figure provides the baby with feelings of </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">security, comfort, consistency, and happiness</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. As the infant grows into a toddler, she uses her attachment figure as a secure base from which to explore the world she’s discovering. When the baby is separated from her attachment figure, she typically experiences distress and fear. </span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Secure attachment </span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">is what you want for your child. There are three other types of attachment: avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized. These are insecure and unhealthy attachment patterns and often result in emotional issues in later childhood and adulthood. They are not</span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> </span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">conducive to optimal development. If you want to learn what these patterns look like, </span></span><a href="http://www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/famsci/fs617w.htm"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">this website</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> gives a brief breakdown of them.</span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">In short, a secure attachment relationship during early childhood is crucial in order for your infant to develop healthy relationships over the course of </span></span><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">the rest of his life.</span></span></b></i></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i></i></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">No pressure, right? :-)</span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Relax. Y</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">ou are likely already engaging with your infant in ways that help create a secure attachment -- picking him up when he cries; feeding him when he’s hungry; changing his diapers; talking, reading, and singing to him; holding him (babies thrive when they have physical contact); and picking up on his cues. These things (the things you’re already doing..</span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;">.</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">go you!!</span></span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">) are the best ways to create a secure attachment with your infant. As long as you are responding to your infant </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">consistently, appropriately, and lovingly</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, you’ve got this attachment thing down.</span></span><a href="http://www.helpguide.org/mental/parenting_attachment.htm"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> Click here to read, “Bonding with Your Baby,”</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> (a </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">great </span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">article!) for more information about ways to create a secure attachment with your infant. </span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Some people tend to believe that in order to foster independence in an infant or toddler, they must limit how quickly they respond to the infant’s needs and avoid consistently responding to </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">all </span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> of their needs. They think they will “spoil” the baby. Actually, the </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">opposite</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> is true. Research proves that babies whose needs are met in </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">consistent</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> and </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">loving</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> ways develop a </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">more positive self-image</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> and become </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">more independent</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> and </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">more secure</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> adults than babies whose needs are met inconsistently or unreliably (who tend to act out in ways we might define as “spoiled”).</span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 14.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></span></span></div><div style="font: 12.0px Helvetica; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">To sum up, I </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">basically</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> just told you that there is no such thing as holding your baby too much (as if you </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">needed</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> a reason to hold your baby) -- so go ahead and ignore those people who tell you you’re “spoiling” your infant or toddler...</span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">that’s really pretty hard to do</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. In several years you can prove them wrong anyway with the secure, independent, caring little human you’ve raised.</span></span></span></div>Nancihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01692648544383327693noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353643391655343924.post-45148258486532946652011-08-31T23:13:00.004-05:002011-09-01T14:13:52.211-05:00Sensory Play . . . It Makes Sense<div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 15.0px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Picture this: Ten kids under the age of six in bare feet and underwear, skating on shaving cream on the kitchen floor, falling down, getting back up, laughing and squealing! This was the scene I encountered upon entering my father-in-law’s house not too long after my husband and I met. At that moment, all I thought was, “Ah, yes…this is </span></span></i><i><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">totally</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b> </b>the right family for me!”</span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">By engaging in play that utilizes their senses, children (at any age) are using scientific inquiry. To an infant or toddler, everything is new, so </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">lots </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">of questions develop which leads to exploration. The child explores objects and materials using his senses, gathers information about them, and attempts to answer his own questions. </span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Not only does sensory play create connections in your child’s developing brain, but it also serves as a calming mechanism and can help children release emotions that they may not yet be skilled enough to sort out verbally. For example, the process of scooping and pouring a substance can feel very calming and relaxing (water, rice, sand); squeezing and pounding a material can help release anger and frustration (playdough, clay).</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Consider this scenario:</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">You hit the power button on your TV – it won’t turn on. “Hmmm,” you think, “that’s strange.” If you’re like me, you probably continue to hit the power button, harder each time, hoping it will eventually work. It still won’t work so you follow the power cord and realize it is not plugged in. Duh. </span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">When a toddler displays challenging behavior (biting, hitting, screaming…), I typically first ask myself if they have had enough access to sensory play (by first, I really mean </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">after</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b> </b>I stupidly keep trying whatever I am trying in the first place that isn’t working). Often times, I find a connection between a lack of access to sensory play and the challenging behavior. In this way, I liken sensory play for a young child to a power cord for a TV -- just like the TV cannot properly function without the power cord plugged in, a young child cannot properly function without opportunities to engage his senses. If your toddler is driving you over the edge with challenging behavior, consider implementing some sensory play into her day and see if you notice any differences.</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><br />
</i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">That day in the kitchen, my nieces and nephews weren’t just participating in what will become an awesome childhood memory for them, but they were also creating valuable connections between pathways in their developing brains. The feeling of soft, foamy shaving cream between their toes; their feet sliding around on the smooth, slippery floor; the fresh, musky scent; the sounds of laughter around them -- the kids were engaged in a meaningful activity full of lots of sensory input -- two things that are very conducive to appropriate brain development. AND...the kitchen floor got a good “mopping” in the process! See? Good for everyone!</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">So go ahead...engage those senses and have some fun! Your kitchen floor needs cleaned anyway, right?</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">A </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">few</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b> </b>of my favorite sensory activities (it was hard to narrow my list down to a few!):</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">--<b> Cornstarch + Water</b> (touch) -- this is just pure awesomeness...is it a solid or a liquid?! Try it. You’ll love it, too.</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-- <b>Texture Collage</b> (touch): gather materials of various textures (cotton balls, sandpaper, ribbon, beans, etc.) and let your child glue them to a piece of cardboard.</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-- <b>Coffee Sand</b> (touch and smell): mix coffee and sand together = fun texture and yummy coffee smell</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-- <b>Flubber </b>(touch): <a href="http://www.wolverhamptonart.org.uk/learning/teachers_resources/pre_school/flubber">Click here for recipe</a></span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-- <b>Colored Rice </b>(sight, sound, and touch): Mix a few drops of food coloring with a teaspoon or two of rubbing alcohol and add it to uncooked rice. Let it dry and then get to playing!</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">-- <b>Plain Water </b>(sight, touch, sound): add measuring cups for scooping and dumping, wash clothes and dishes for “washing,” water wheels, sponges...the possibilities are endless!</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Links to other great sites with <b>wonderful </b>sensory ideas:</span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 15.0px;"><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #000099; font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><u><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black;"><br />
</span></u></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://www.lekotek.org/pdfs/packets/Messy_Play.pdf">Lekotek</a>: Sensory play ideas from Lekotek, complete with recipes.</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://mommypoppins.com/ny-kids/99-sensory-activities-for-any-child">Mommy Poppins</a>: This site has 99 great ideas for sensory activities.</span></span></span></i></div><div style="font: 13.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;"><i><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia,'Times New Roman',serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
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